The 4 bases of dating
Often, the most pleasurable sexual activity occurs when both or all partners are focused on the experience — rather than an end goal.
Another crucial piece to rounding any of the bases is making sure that you and your partner(s) have mutually consented.
"It is helpful to imagine sex as a journey," blogger .
If you're not taking pleasure in the journey — or at least indulging some curiosity — then why keep going?
" Instead, we're off and running to the next base instead of taking time to explore our own bodies and sexuality.
The sexual contact associated with each base has evolved dramatically since I was a teenager, although "home base" or "home run" has always meant intercourse, and "first base" has always meant kissing or snogging.
To use the expression correctly, you get or make it to a base, per my comment: quotation, if I interpret it correctly, they had intravaginal sex twice and then she performed oral sex on him.